Thursday, January 23, 2014

Does Anyone Want To Meet My Dragons?!

I love my dragons. I play a game called Dragon Story, where I breed and raise dragons while completing quests at the same time. There are all sorts of different breeds, and you can expand your dragon island if you have enough money. Once you reach higher levels you start to reap more benefits, such as the Dragon Olympics Stadium and rarer breeds which bring in more coins and gold.


The first time I downloaded this app was two years ago, and I was quickly addicted. In fact I became so addicted that I forced myself to delete the app- although I loved being a professional dragon raiser, I realized an addiction to raising dragons is not an attractive quality.

However, I only ended up deleting the app for about a year before my brother reminded me of its existence. Low and behold, Dragon Story ended up on the front page of my iPhone again this past Fall. Months later I’m still ‘wasting’ (this seems more like a waste of time to other people than to me) hours of my day feeding my dragons and breeding them to create new and rarer types.

Through the ups and downs of my sophomore and senior years, Dragon Story has been a constant for me (not including the dark days after deleting the app from my phone). When going through social drama, I would repeat the mantra “at least I have my dragons” in my head. If I received a bad grade in a class I would convince myself that somehow I would grow up to be a professional dragon raiser. Although they’re only a mere gathering of pixels, I love hanging out with my dragons which only exist in a world where I alone can interact with them.

Online worlds and games are our release and escape from reality. Whether things are going well or poorly in life, we artificially share information online more than we talk with other humans face to face. The best times we have with our friends, when we receive good news, and funny family incidents always end up online in the form of pictures and statuses. It’s almost as if we need to prove to each other that we’re off doing something that doesn't revolve around being on social networking sites. Of course, the most popular way of proving this is to put it online for everyone to see.

Even the bad times end up online. Fights between buddies and family drama come out in the form of tweets more than anything. Why do we do this? Why do we share some of our most private and intimate moments for not only our friends but for the whole world to see? Often it seems we seek the pity and helping hands of those friends who want to pick us up when we’re down. We like to send out something that shows we’re sad in order to see who will respond with help, to see who really loves and cares about us. Does that make sense? To show that we really love each other through a computer screen? Probably not. However this is the world we live in, and if that’s your preference then that’s your own choice.

As college comes up, I’m making a January 22nd resolution to start spending more real time with my friends before we scatter ourselves all around the globe. If a result of this is less time with my dragons (who I do consider friends of mine) then so be it.